After millions n zillions of definitions on dat powerful feeling of love...i feel the need to add more to the dictionary....like in a previous post i said that you can fall out of love, and i got a few I stick by it!! N some more inferences in continuation....
- Love can happen twice!! Yes, y not we are blessed with a heart that has the capacity to love and hate equally. So y not use it to the optimum!!
- You will fall out of love eventually!! Because love is just so overpowering that sooner or later u r bound to get over d feeling...or me a shift in affection can result in the same.
- Boy n Gal are alwaz fatally attracted n can never remain only frnds!! Hmmm....i remember this corny dialog from maine pyar kiya that said- Ladka aur Ladki kabhi dost nahi ho sakte!! True....There is alwaz an attraction that is pulling u towards each other - it can be beauty, brains or just common interests!
- Love can be love n still not be bound in a commitment! For some reasons if you are loved or love someone but can not give it a social name- You can call it only LOVE!!! Who tells u to alwas give a name to a relationship? If u hav a frnd in the opp sex, just to avoid sarcastic comments u are willing to become siblings - I hear a lot of that these days - Woh toh mera bhai hai!! Mere behen jaisi hai!! But yyyyyyyy? You like or love someone cos your heart says so....you are not answerable to anyone else!! Well, they definitely do not know y dat 'special' frnd of ur's is on your mind all the time....n it may not be sexual....just plain liking!!!
- Loving your Friend is Normal!! Yes, you love your friend becos he or she is alwaz with you. Not because you want more s**!!! That is lame! When you get love, support n trust in the purest form you will love that person automatically.
- Liking and Love eventually lead to physical attraction!! Men/ wome can stand on roof tops n claim that their love is PURE!! But somewhere deep down there is a burning desire to touch n feel....out of sheer curiosity of getting intimate with the one you love.
More comments to follow..........
Sunday, September 12, 2010
Saturday, September 11, 2010
Jaane nahi denge tujhe!!
The famous 3 Idiots number never made more sense to me than it did today :-(( hmmmm...dat sad, with a heavy heart n tears welling up i play d song n expect dat miraculously life will change n be fun again :-) Silly me...i fail to understand...damage done is done for once n for all.....
For me....i like to smile away my pain (yeah...new terminology just invented....by moi) but its not happening....d perfect pair does not part into a grin to state d least.....y is my smile missing? y is my heart so heavy? I wonder how n y? The answer is simple....the loss of presence, the familiar touch, the loss of a simple smile across the room...simple joys will now me lost in the mobile bills, internet bills and sheer distance!!
Y don't things just remain d way the are wher nuthin changes at all......u wake up n go to work!!! Does dat ever change????? NEVER!!! Then y d other natural n desired things fall prey to - life has to change!!
For me....i like to smile away my pain (yeah...new terminology just invented....by moi) but its not happening....d perfect pair does not part into a grin to state d least.....y is my smile missing? y is my heart so heavy? I wonder how n y? The answer is simple....the loss of presence, the familiar touch, the loss of a simple smile across the room...simple joys will now me lost in the mobile bills, internet bills and sheer distance!!
Y don't things just remain d way the are wher nuthin changes at all......u wake up n go to work!!! Does dat ever change????? NEVER!!! Then y d other natural n desired things fall prey to - life has to change!!
Meeting n parting ways of life!
Hmmm....writing after a long gap...but like they say wen u have the thoughts words flow out of your mind n through ur hands.....one such day today!! A very very close frnd has left d company n moved on.....n few of my thoughts on dat are:
- I am happy for u!!
- Damn cool...all d best
- Hey keep in touch
- I will miss u :-(
- Pls don't goooooooo!!!
Mixed bag of emotions n mixed thots!! We face dis at sum point of time in life....for sum weird reason i am crooning - Milke bichadna toh dastoor ho gaya...yaadon mein teri majboor ho gaya...oh sanam unn yaadon ki kasam....A Lucky Ali famous number! But so true....human nature u feel like clinging on to every thing and every thought!! As i sit to write...i see laughter, smiles exchanged, the mean jokes, the helpful frnd and above all a great character i met in the metro city :-)
Usually i am termed 'extra pally' but with him...yes its not a girl best frnd but a guy....I was never ever conscious....sumthing abt him...things that i will never tell him ever but do know its sooo typical of him:
- He is handsome, smart n in his words DASHING!!
- A guy with a 1000 watt smile
- Very practical n down to earth
- Diplomatic wen he has to be....u can trust ur office gossip with him
- He writes mind blowing corporate content n even better...much much better poetry...dat u r bound to lov it :-)
- Laughs n chuckles like a kid....although a well built man all of 28 himself
- His credibility n responsibility makes him stand out in the crowd of 60 people in office.
- Everybody sets examples of him....his style of work, his nature and funny enough to the extent his resignation became an example too.....
:-) i don't want him to read dis....he may reach cloud 9 :-) n ritely so...nai kya!! hahaha....another silly word he has left with me....
Sunday, August 15, 2010
Haappy Independence Day!!
So its the 15th of August and there is this mass hysteria among people to believe that they are proud Indians!! Wow!! that must make them feel good na.....these dozen sms forwards.....umpteen number of orkut profile pic changes to the tricolor...gals in white flashing the tri color bangles....NOW THATS VERY VERY INDIAN!!......I don't think so.....
I wish to ask these 'I am Proud to be Indian' Fans.......tell me aren't u the same people who:
- Eat shamelessly inside the metro, when there is a constant announcement to keep the metro clean
- Are you not the same people who hate it n then often change the channel when a desh bhakti song is playing.....Kar chale hum fida...jaano tan saathiyon!! Well, ironically it pleases your ears only on the 26th of Jan & 15th of August
- Did you just say you are proud to be an Indian, when you conveniently married a Britisher and are already a citizen of U.K? Wow!! If you were sooooooo Indian why crib of the hot summers in India....cos London felt so much better did'nt it?
- If asked what your favorite film is you rattle of all the English films you know....I am sure Sholay or Border is no where close on that list.....
boo...hooo!!
Well, having said all that the point is why be such hypocrites when you can live life being neutral? C'mon accept and live with the fact that a lot of adaptations have happened in our culture and its no more chalk n cheese.....I on my part absolutely detest chanting I am proud to be Indian...when deep down I am just any other person in the crowd living each day as it comes!!
I wish to ask these 'I am Proud to be Indian' Fans.......tell me aren't u the same people who:
- Eat shamelessly inside the metro, when there is a constant announcement to keep the metro clean
- Are you not the same people who hate it n then often change the channel when a desh bhakti song is playing.....Kar chale hum fida...jaano tan saathiyon!! Well, ironically it pleases your ears only on the 26th of Jan & 15th of August
- Did you just say you are proud to be an Indian, when you conveniently married a Britisher and are already a citizen of U.K? Wow!! If you were sooooooo Indian why crib of the hot summers in India....cos London felt so much better did'nt it?
- If asked what your favorite film is you rattle of all the English films you know....I am sure Sholay or Border is no where close on that list.....
boo...hooo!!
Well, having said all that the point is why be such hypocrites when you can live life being neutral? C'mon accept and live with the fact that a lot of adaptations have happened in our culture and its no more chalk n cheese.....I on my part absolutely detest chanting I am proud to be Indian...when deep down I am just any other person in the crowd living each day as it comes!!
Saturday, August 14, 2010
One after the other
De dhana dhan offer....one of those days...where I am sitting with my thoughts hovering my mind...n what better way to let it out than to pen it down on my blog...that i hvae been not visiting that often.
So here comes one more post after that exhaustive post :-) Now wat you ask? N i say its about a trait peculiar to women- Mood swings :-)
So there are days when you are angry, days when you are sad, days when you smile all day and some days when you feel completely numb!! I face the proverbial mood swing to....n usually those are the exact days that I am sad and not sporting my famous smile!! Famous I say because thats one of the only thing on me that never fades away in a hurry and adds value to my face.
- I can smile at anyone or anything when i please....an unknown face in the metro wanting to trip on me to get out at the station.
- I can smile at my tired looking colleague walking up the stairs with effort on an early monday morning.
- I can smile at my fav song playing in the office
- I can smile at the old landlady looking sick and wanting some company, so I drop in to say hi
- I can smile at my hubby who gives me weird excuses for smoking at work dat day
- I can smile at my friend who is leaving office in a few days and tell him that its ok and he should move on. While the truth is I am goin to miss him terribly.
- I can smile at this colleague who is looking at me through this glass window....I think he wants sumthin.....my smile....there u go :-)
- I can smile at my scowling boss when he has to ask me for an update on a project when he can visibly see that I have no work in hand....
So here comes one more post after that exhaustive post :-) Now wat you ask? N i say its about a trait peculiar to women- Mood swings :-)
So there are days when you are angry, days when you are sad, days when you smile all day and some days when you feel completely numb!! I face the proverbial mood swing to....n usually those are the exact days that I am sad and not sporting my famous smile!! Famous I say because thats one of the only thing on me that never fades away in a hurry and adds value to my face.
- I can smile at anyone or anything when i please....an unknown face in the metro wanting to trip on me to get out at the station.
- I can smile at my tired looking colleague walking up the stairs with effort on an early monday morning.
- I can smile at my fav song playing in the office
- I can smile at the old landlady looking sick and wanting some company, so I drop in to say hi
- I can smile at my hubby who gives me weird excuses for smoking at work dat day
- I can smile at my friend who is leaving office in a few days and tell him that its ok and he should move on. While the truth is I am goin to miss him terribly.
- I can smile at this colleague who is looking at me through this glass window....I think he wants sumthin.....my smile....there u go :-)
- I can smile at my scowling boss when he has to ask me for an update on a project when he can visibly see that I have no work in hand....
Think I am an expert....
Ok, its a consious decision to not make this post look like it is all about gyaan... but i have inferred upon sum interesting facts on the male species and I think you mite wana have a look:
- Men
Often classified as Mama's Boys, boyfrnd, husband and then eventually fathers.
My reference right now is to the brand of 'husbands' . Its a brand because they have a reputation to carry and they do that with elan.
Some Interesting Facts:
- Husbands like to believe that since they have the legal 'wedded license' the poor lil docile wife will never go away.....hah!!
- No matter how hard i work and i do not give my wife time....she knows i am doing it for 'US'
- I get a day off from work, I want to do as i please....so i will watch t.v, play video games, eat junk food, sleep all day and enjoy myself. Now obviously spending time with wife......ummm...lemme think ya....after she goes off to sleep.....duh??
- My wife is always nagging and pining like a puppy doggy that you do not spend time with me, look at me.....lets go out....lets eat out!! Wtf...get a life woman!!!
- She says anything i can brush her aside saying - I can't help, dis is my work and there is nothing i can do. So take it or leave it!! hah!!
Now I take the liberty of being the 'wife' and i have sum good responses for you mister!!! :-P
- So....I may not be Miss India or Miss World....but I am a woman and I have some appeal....no wonder you fell for me....so yeah....like u did....tom will, jim will and so will Harry :-) Like dat? don't ya.....lol.....
Read on.....
- Well, you working really hard honey.....but where is the money???? lol....show me the moolah....i can go shopping.....n if ther is no money how hard are you really working!!! lol......
Clap!! clap!!! Thank uuuuuuuuuuuuu :-)
- Ok, you have an off....honey you really deserve it!! So have fun...take care :-) But when i am back you still hooked on to t.v!! WTF.....so ok....i am missing nuthin...i am goin to sms my 'MALE' frnd from office and chat with him (and he hass all the time for me)......watch sum t.v and roll off to sleep!!! Yawn.....i did'nt notice u joined me late in bed!! Hahhh....howzzat :-P
- So if she cares for you...asks wat you ate, when will we go out....spend time with me na.....you don't like it!! Ok, fine!! If she looses interest in you she will not bother to ask...and soon don't be surprised if she cums home late cos she had a coffee date with a 'special' frnd.....oh!! dat sounds like fun!!
Trust me just writing this is tickling my senses so much.....that my empty office cubicle is roaring with laughter :-)))
- Men
Often classified as Mama's Boys, boyfrnd, husband and then eventually fathers.
My reference right now is to the brand of 'husbands' . Its a brand because they have a reputation to carry and they do that with elan.
Some Interesting Facts:
- Husbands like to believe that since they have the legal 'wedded license' the poor lil docile wife will never go away.....hah!!
- No matter how hard i work and i do not give my wife time....she knows i am doing it for 'US'
- I get a day off from work, I want to do as i please....so i will watch t.v, play video games, eat junk food, sleep all day and enjoy myself. Now obviously spending time with wife......ummm...lemme think ya....after she goes off to sleep.....duh??
- My wife is always nagging and pining like a puppy doggy that you do not spend time with me, look at me.....lets go out....lets eat out!! Wtf...get a life woman!!!
- She says anything i can brush her aside saying - I can't help, dis is my work and there is nothing i can do. So take it or leave it!! hah!!
Now I take the liberty of being the 'wife' and i have sum good responses for you mister!!! :-P
- So....I may not be Miss India or Miss World....but I am a woman and I have some appeal....no wonder you fell for me....so yeah....like u did....tom will, jim will and so will Harry :-) Like dat? don't ya.....lol.....
Read on.....
- Well, you working really hard honey.....but where is the money???? lol....show me the moolah....i can go shopping.....n if ther is no money how hard are you really working!!! lol......
Clap!! clap!!! Thank uuuuuuuuuuuuu :-)
- Ok, you have an off....honey you really deserve it!! So have fun...take care :-) But when i am back you still hooked on to t.v!! WTF.....so ok....i am missing nuthin...i am goin to sms my 'MALE' frnd from office and chat with him (and he hass all the time for me)......watch sum t.v and roll off to sleep!!! Yawn.....i did'nt notice u joined me late in bed!! Hahhh....howzzat :-P
- So if she cares for you...asks wat you ate, when will we go out....spend time with me na.....you don't like it!! Ok, fine!! If she looses interest in you she will not bother to ask...and soon don't be surprised if she cums home late cos she had a coffee date with a 'special' frnd.....oh!! dat sounds like fun!!
Trust me just writing this is tickling my senses so much.....that my empty office cubicle is roaring with laughter :-)))
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Can't get any worse :-)
Yeah.....you read dat right, I said Can't get any worse and there I flash my famous smile :-) just like dis.....
I am sitting all alone today in the room that was filled with people just a week back...so you make place for people in your office, at home and in your heart! Most often people who make a place in your heart remain there for a good long time. Some memories you endear and some you just wish you could erase. As far as your office colleagues/ friends go....some go ahead and become frnds for life while the others are remembered your acquaintances.
With me most of the time people just remain as acquaintances and very rarely classify as close frnds and I like it like dat....c'mon how many people do I accomodate, in my lil heart here....hehehehe....no seriously....i believe relations should be maintained and if you can't do that then you have no right to put them on your list of frnds.
Hahaha....right as I type in these lines...there is an old song palying in the background - Kab ke bichade huye hum aaj kahan aakey mile.....sumthin for frnds u meet unexpectedly on the road or a coffee shop or most likely in a Metro like Delhi you meet in the'metro' :-)
I am sitting all alone today in the room that was filled with people just a week back...so you make place for people in your office, at home and in your heart! Most often people who make a place in your heart remain there for a good long time. Some memories you endear and some you just wish you could erase. As far as your office colleagues/ friends go....some go ahead and become frnds for life while the others are remembered your acquaintances.
With me most of the time people just remain as acquaintances and very rarely classify as close frnds and I like it like dat....c'mon how many people do I accomodate, in my lil heart here....hehehehe....no seriously....i believe relations should be maintained and if you can't do that then you have no right to put them on your list of frnds.
Hahaha....right as I type in these lines...there is an old song palying in the background - Kab ke bichade huye hum aaj kahan aakey mile.....sumthin for frnds u meet unexpectedly on the road or a coffee shop or most likely in a Metro like Delhi you meet in the'metro' :-)
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