Back to Dullness!

Yes....n so I am back....back from where I started a loner in Delhi....n 4 years hence still nothing to take back...just some memories...good yes...turned to meaningless lately.

That bring across a question - Why do we really trust people?

1- Cos we love getting hurt
2- Why should we always be happy?
3- We love to be taken on an emotional joyride
4- We hate peace

I think it should be we just fail to understand that people are selfish and they will act as and when they please! Why face a gamut of emotions such as this times n again.....

I feel disoriented suddenly n have myself to blame :-)

Ego of a Man!

They say women revel in pride and ego's that of a queen but men eat the humble pie. Duh?? Wat??? Sorry I do not quiet believe that! My god, men harbor ego's that are gigantic and unfathomable(if that is a word) :-P

You see all kinds of ego hassles flying around you. For example a list that I observe daily.

- Friends (boy n a gal) usually fight, n dats natural, but the onus of making up is on the gal. Because the guy will stand clean saying you are the one who always fights with me.

P.S: What is the harm if you forego, mister, and make her feel nice for a change :-P


- Husband n Wife always agree to disagree on every trivial issue. However, if they fight the wife has to take the first step, explain her stand and disagreement all the time. So that can happen over the phone, via mail, via sms or one on one.


P.S: So what if you disagree, tell her nicely what you mean and she will surely understand. Please understand, women are like babies, you shout n scream they will never listen. You explain politely you see them walk beside you. So what is your problem? Really!


- Son -in-law and Father-in-law might not be cat n mouse relationship like the saas-bahu's but they are swallowed by pride. Father always judging if the crook is taking care of his child and the crook...nee...son in law, would ensure that no matter how humbly they live, will be one up. And hate it if there is any 'monetary' gift involved.

Looking for an abode!

Heavenly Abode! No no not yet.....I am sure we will all go there one day but hey not soo soon ::-P So yah....talking of an abode we are planning to shift from the accommodation we are in and want to shift soon.....

Our Criteria being:

- Close proximity to the metro station

- Safe n secure locality

- A spacious home....especially since we paying through our nose...it should be worth the money - Value for money actually!

I fail to believe that a metro like Delhi fails to offer you all the 3 essential aspects you are looking at. U look at something less than the perfect u are invited to view dingy pit holes n not to mention absolutely unacceptable surroundings.

Our dilemma bein dat just yesterday we saw a house which was so so perfect in everyway.....but alas!! the area happens to be very dingy n very commercial so you may wana think twice before you step out of the house wearing a tight short tee.....n brace your self for burglary behind your back. So hubby dearest thinks he wud not want to test waters...with eve teasers n d likes of it......so the search is still on....n we croon...

" Do deewane shehar mein, raat mein ya dopahar mein, aabudana dhoondte hain ek aashiyana - Doondhte hain...do deewane shehar mein"

Feeling lighter....

I dunno....sum days back...i remember dis feelin of bein guilty of sumthing dat i am doin wrong...n i kno wat it is!! But since last nite i feel n all new me....i mean there are times wen u have done sumthin dat is not acceptable u look for ways to squirm out of it n i think i am finally determined to do dat!!

Yes take it slow...n go step by step....u will know why it is so wrong urself!! I mean who really wants to ruin a good life for sumthin dat is n was temporary!!

Days like dis u reflect back n ponder whatever made u take dat ONE step....did u not think den? What was that urge? I call it plain....feelin of rebellion n probably curiosity to do sumthin I never did!! Think abt it- U stand to lose it all n yet Satin tempts u enof to take d step....It remains to be seen dat how each individual reacts to any given situation...we all hav our ways n sumone like me likes to fall before i learn :-)

No regrets....because I am still smiling...d past is behind...now moving ahead for a more positive feeling :-)

I have seen crossing limits.....

Today has been a funny day....amidst all the media hype of the Ayodhya Verdict....out of the blue we colleagues decided to discuss wat is actually the truest test of love??

Here is an excerpt for all to know (n makes me happy):

Gal A - The truest test of lov is wen he fights with his family to marry me, makes the effort to meet me after work inspite of his busy schedules....eventually we going to get married next month......wah wah!! Clap!!

Gal B - I am elder to him by a year but he still lovs me like a kid n wants to settle soon to marry me, he has given up non-veg for me, else he was a total foodie.....especially chicken!! He is my mom's best frnds son.....i dunno wat is going to happen...but he lovs me with all his heart!!


Married Woman(dats me)- :-) :-) no apprehensions in being referred to as the knowledgable!! How o they think I kno it all....i dunno....but most of the times i have answers :-)

But my lov story has 2 phases before n after marriage!!

Before Marriage

- My guy was away studying at IHM Punjab- hectic schedules etc....but he wud wake up early to just speak to me, raining like cats n dogs....tryin to rush to the mearest telephone booth to just hear my voice, waited patiently a year before i said I lov u.

- When he had no cash - he made a card himself with I lov u written a thousand times in different ink...n it was valentines day :-)

- when he came on vacation, seeing me was d only thing on his mind....he wud reach home after a 36 hour long train journey n pull out the bike to just see me standing in the balcony....my house was 20 mins away from his, he wud (according to me ) unexpectedly bump into me after college mid way sumwher just to say hi.....but he had planned it all d while :-)

- He flew all the way especially to be on my birthday.....sacrificing his 20 days salary to pleasantly surprise me.... n i was

- He send 1000, red roses, cake n a teddy bear on my birthday from delhi to make me happy :-) i was on cloud 9, really !!


After Marriage


- If i am still sleeping n he is up early for his shift, he will pray and quickly rush to the room to give me the dhoop/agarbati ka saya. Sho shweeth :-)

- Even if he cums at 1am at nite after a long day at work n i am not well, he quickly changes to give me cold compression.

- Sumtimes he wakes early to feed me my first meal of the day

- He keeps karwachauth for me!!!! God bless him :-)

TELL ME - WHO IS BLESSED WITH THE TRUEST LOV??? I kno i win hands down!!!

That is a picture of us - Our First wedding anniversary :-) Anniversary number 2 coming sooon :-)

Dab - aaang!!

Just saw the film and have no words to describe what fans can do to make sallu miyan rise up so high!!! I felt nostalgic almost like watching a movie from the 80's when all you had to do was seek revenge and sing songs!! Now only munni could take d blame of getting badnaam...while i think the real rogue is the poor script writer!! Someone paid him enough money to glorify Salman in a slapstick masala movie such as Dabang!! Well, the cash registers are ringing and Arbaaz Khan has made some money to save face and not live on what Malaika earns for the family :-P Dats rude S.K!! True it is!!

Sonakshi Sinha does not feel like a fresh face, if there was any one younger than an ageing Salman...she fits the role of the mother ....lol.....dat brings me to another cruel comment - Can someone explain to me why does Shotgun's daughter resemble Reena Roy so much??? Hahahahaha.....trust me she does....don't believe it check it out for urself....clcik on google images for both the actresses and compare in one glance.....bingo!! I am rite!!

Some old memories

No no....i am not going to be talkin abt how i grew up n all dat!! Well, we all are born n eventually grow....only circumstances make things different...isn't it?

I have some sketchy memories of the past, when all your motive in life was to watch t.v and sleep! I recollect days when having a television at home was a sign of prosperity!! We had a t.v too and guess what i loved watching the most? The advertisements....so many on my list that still seem so impactful to me like the advt on Hum do hamare do - with a glass jar and 3 tomatoes put in side to depict that till the jar had 2 tomatoes it was alrite when u add a third one you are unable to close the lid and well, it only squeezes out!! So people have a small family...was anyone listening?? den? or even now? I doubt!!

That reminds me of a corny line too - Hum do hamare do- zyada ho toh fekh do!! lol.....hey, i can not complain neither can i comment thats because I am the 3rd sibling....hehehehe...more like a failed attempt at getting a boy in the family!!! lol.....hahahaha....i hav heard my grandma say that ample number of times....but thankfully my parents don't feel the same- instead believe that their daughters are indeed a blessing - lov u mom n dad :-)


Advertisement No 2: This I still imitate like a moron because there is a lady in our office with the same name - I am sure, u remember - Oho...Deepikaji....aaaeye aaeye...yeh lijiye aapka...saamaan.....yeh nahi woh!!! The lines seem embossed in my head.....i can rattle it off like a mimic :-P another talent that i use only when i want to see people around me laugh as well.