Exactly a year later......

I'm back!! From where? Heehee...no where was just here not bringing myself to write my blog...lots of things happened....good...n a very few bad! Thank God for that....

A few highlights of the past few months:

- i'm still holding d job i got last year dis time.....
- Surprisingly, Zaman changed 2 since then........i thought that would have been me!!!
- Paid up higher rent in posh Delhi
- Faced typical housewife problems...like scarcity of water....oooh!! Dats d worst!!
- Got to see Delhi n more of it....
- Hey i'm becoming a foodie too.....eat, eat n just eat....eat whatever u see...pani puri, bhel puri, amrak, KFC, Mac D's....I'm gonna be descriptive of dat in the next post....
my previous posts were becoming kind of boring, so i needed to get my act together rite....

Although at dis point I have lost of things to write about....n i just wana enjoy the flow of words through my fingers...falling just in place....my mind filled with a thousand visuals but the aim remains to keep it more interesting then the last. Now, I think i sound philosophical too..

Back to Square One!!

Hmmm....after all those blogs on how life had changed for me, here i write back to square one!! N u wonder y?

Well, one prime reason being cribbing about the job i am doin at d moment. Very boring....n not my types...it is giving me no creative satisfaction n i am left feeling totally disgusted!! I mean come on, there has to be sumthing better out there for me rite? Earlier the job i had i cribbed so much dat damn i wana use my brains to write those articles....n now i am stuck in a company that writes exclusively for automobile parts....am i upset or what??? This is not what i want to write on!! I want travel related sites, maybe some food also but not company websites utterly boring :-(

Weekend getaway

I'm just back from a very tiring trip....although tiring yet very refreshing...i kno contradictory statements there but its quite true. Well, on one hand i had been complianing for quite some time that life is becoming so predictable- home/work n back that is all i have been doing...i want a change- Well, i got my change, we planned a quick getaway to Punjab....I went to Amritsar, the Golden Temple-seeked some divine ble-ssings, travelled to Chandigarh met a close family frnd, spend some time chatting and then retired to bed like I had never known the pleasure of sleeping :-P Next day was more travelling for us as we went to meet my college frnd in a place far away from Chandigarh, it was a pleasure seeing her after so long and not to mention her baby was very cute. After some time we had to leave to come back to Delhi as we had to go back to office.

Some observations of a new place:

AMRITSAR- God is surely happy seeing 100's n 1000's of devotees queing outside his door to bow their heads in reverence. Amritsar has other historical monuments like the Jallianwala Bagh- where the massacre happened that came as a big blow to the Sikh community. Amritsar is also famous for its cloth, I'm sure women/college going gals must have a hard time deciding what is to be worn on monday that is better than the dress worn on sunday :-) Every little bylane there had a cloth shop n women swarming like bees outside. Amritsar is also famous for Pappad's n other things to fry, u name it u got it all here.


CHANDIGARH- Its a beautiful city i must say. Well planned, traffic rule adherance and CLEAN!! Wow, it was so clean that you did not feel like littering it yourself. Each place was divided in sectors, n each sector had its unique shops/eateries n pubs. All i observed was that it was a very happening city.


My opinion about Punjab is :

You know you are in Punjab when;

The bus driver plays loud punjabi songs in the bus,
The bus driver does not care for your precious eardrums n honks away to glory,
The women are all FAT/OVERDRESSED for a road trip n obviously carry at least 2 cranky kids,
There are so many kids there....everywhere i turned i could see only kids, crying kids, giggling kids, cranky kids, bald kids and simply staring kids.
Obviously there were only turbanators out there- i mean sardar's...to be more specfic.
The language they speak is only punjabi,
Well, all of them have DESIGNER salwar kameez's to wear! Don't get me wrong not designers like J.J vallaya or sumthin....more like Raju Sardar n Montu Di Sillai...fashion sense is bright yellow,dark blue n black salwar kameezes.lol
Not to mention choclate brown lipstik smeared on the lips, with vermillion filled in the forhead like they just played holi :-P

Don't hatch ur chickens too early

Haha :-) apt title for this post....Like i have been goin around town telling all n sundry that my hubby has nite shifts this week....what am i goin to do? how will i manage alone?? blah...blah...But u know what all that went in vain when i had a good night's sleep :-) Seriously, i am surprised myself...but i hav managed to sleep well and was not scared (as usual) although i got up quite a few times, but that does not count for no sleep at all...

Moral of the story: Ladies, please stop acting like damsels in distress all the time...n learn to swim if you have been thrown in the pool. Seriously, is there any point really, in making a long face a prior week thinking that oh! its gonna be so difficult, instead wait for the time to come, you will know yourself. Speculation rarely helps :-)Trust me!

Well, also last night I happened to watch Father of the Bride-I, Steve Martin, put the best emotion across so beautifully. There is no better emotion than what a father feels when his daughter starts liking someone else(wants to marry) I have seen that with my father too, now that i reminisce it all makes sense. He use to be so so touchy about me sitting to message all day, while i rarely found time to chat with them :-( I know, i have been so wicked. But i wana say- I LOVE YOU, PAPA.....n i miss you each day :-( sob...sob...

Random Thought Process

Hmmm...I have bin thinkin for sum time now..n i feel like there should be a place where all of us can go and talk our heart out, more like getting a therapy, where they fix your brains!! Yes, brains! I mean why is it so difficult for me to understand my situation n act accordingly yaar...i'm soo tired of my insensitive side. Invariably, my target is my poor hubby, poor fellow, does'nt even realize wat his fault is n is put through my tantrums, more like my anger fits!

Here i would like to take a moment n thank God, for his blessings that he has given me a very loving husband, who is ultra caring and mind u very sensitive(i guess all men are)i often overlook his situation n keep blaming him for coming home late, although on the hind side i kno that he is not to be blamed but i don't stop there do i?

He sleep talks, usually...actually everyday....n it comes as a lil surprise that even in his sleep he thanks God for me in his life!! I have overheard that twice now (n its not on purpose its in his sleep) But that does not stop, my devilish traits n i piss him off....N when men say that women are actually the real cause behind all worries, they are so so damn right!

Just Generally....

Today, i read my frnd Nasa's blog...i am so happy that she had a beautiful birthday....n i wish her many more...thinking of her birthday....an idea came to my mind...why not do sumthin special for my hubby too...although his birthday is not today or even day after but 2 months later...n pre-planning can help boss....so i'm gona do just that...

I had the chance to go through one of 'an acquaintances' blog...now why this emphasis i'm not gona get in the details of that BUT why i mention that is cos I'm actually surprised gals who show that they are too good for their shoes are actually the one's who are love sick n deprived of it too....n like to whine so much dat you feel...."babe why have u spilled your emotions all over the Internet"....it makes me sick :-P I know we should not be sarcastic but hey....its just human...to pass some remarks like dis one.....

Dear Acquaintance,

You shall find love when your time comes....n it'll be sweet then...ok so please act your age n concentrate on having fun :-0

Akele hain....toh kya gum hai :-)

Ha...hehehe...filmy tagline right? But today after a long time...i get ti sit alone in my cabin....no ringing phones, irritating cacophony, no screaming boss :-) isn't that good...

I dunno how this thought just came to my mind, i want to buy a DIGITAL CAMERA :-( HERE I GO....HERE I GO AGAIN.....lol....i can't help it! Its human right to think n want, all the time :-) Lemme make a list of things i want to do if i have a digital camera- I'll click a snap of my current house n send back home, then sum of my desire is to take some candid photo's of my hubby n me....oh...no, no!! I don't mean.soooooooooo candid...before your minds race, i only mean instead of smiling typically, i'd rather click snaps of us working at home :-) watching t.v, going for a walk or watever, on the roads of Delhi so that when i leave this metro for good :-P i'll have memories to retain.

Off late

I realize dat off late i have been simply giving a lot of gyaan....n i wonder if there are any takers....hehehe

But I guess...its just the thot that randomly comes to my mind n i wana pen it down.....such are the turn of events that i feel home sick by the day and feel like just going back home....to be more specific MY HOME, to my parents house, eat all i like n ONLY sleep...not that i don't get to do that here but its just not the same.

Life in a metro is like they claim FAST! u don't realise which side of the earth you face n whoosh....d day goes by.

Although a positive change in life has been that i crib a lot LESS...but nonetheless i do find ways n means to do so...lol....i guess sumthings n some people more specifically don't change.

Hey...n i even want to lose sum paunchy weight....n am wondering how!!! :-(

Father and a Husband

Hmmm….dis post is for all those gals who have had a pampered n overprotective maiden innings in life and have now entered d stark reality of marriage.

- Gals never mistake your hubby to act like your dad
- Do not put him on a pedestal where you expect him to act in a certain way….for all you know he is just like you always thinking about himself.
- He may or may not have time to ask you how you are feeling; probably it slipped his head that you are in pain for some reason.
- If you do not clearly show signs of pain he will never know, it’s hurting.


Now how was DADDY different

1. He always cared no matter what time of the day
2. Woke up from his sleep to check on your fever
3. Called a number of times in the day to check on you
4. Ensured you took your medicine in time, reminded you when you needed to take your dose.
5. Above all –HE GAVE YOU BIRTH N KNOWS HOW TO TAKE CARE.


My experience lately has been that please be thankful to God that you have a dad who cares for you- may feel like nagging sometimes but trust me you will miss it when he is not physically around you….for whatever reason. Let him know you are thankful and how much you appreciate his gesture.

Happy New Year :-)

This new year was in particular a special one :-) Ok..ok...dats cos i am with the one that i most wanted...but also because i realized that God is always watching over u, listening to each prayer and therefore, i can safely say that my prayers have been answered!

Each year has its special memory, last year..i enjoyed a new years bash at my best friends place :-) this year i was happy bein in the comforts of my home...watching Pirates of the Carribean n gorging on some hot KFC chicken....yummmm...i would have liked to go out but..Delhi was on high alert, police vans in each corner of the road were quiet intimidating..n not to forget the chilly winds...its suddenly become so cold here....so u guessed it rite of course staying at home was a better idea :-)

Delhi is known for its raising temperatures at all times of the year :-)i am yet to witness the heat but am welcomed with the winters with a big bang.

There is a thick layer of fog early in the morning and to be more speciffic at the time i leave for work...i may sound like i am stretching it too far but genuinely the other day i could not see a car passing by, so foggy out here...Pune was never so bad...i miss my Pune sumtimes :-0