I have seen crossing limits.....

Today has been a funny day....amidst all the media hype of the Ayodhya Verdict....out of the blue we colleagues decided to discuss wat is actually the truest test of love??

Here is an excerpt for all to know (n makes me happy):

Gal A - The truest test of lov is wen he fights with his family to marry me, makes the effort to meet me after work inspite of his busy schedules....eventually we going to get married next month......wah wah!! Clap!!

Gal B - I am elder to him by a year but he still lovs me like a kid n wants to settle soon to marry me, he has given up non-veg for me, else he was a total foodie.....especially chicken!! He is my mom's best frnds son.....i dunno wat is going to happen...but he lovs me with all his heart!!


Married Woman(dats me)- :-) :-) no apprehensions in being referred to as the knowledgable!! How o they think I kno it all....i dunno....but most of the times i have answers :-)

But my lov story has 2 phases before n after marriage!!

Before Marriage

- My guy was away studying at IHM Punjab- hectic schedules etc....but he wud wake up early to just speak to me, raining like cats n dogs....tryin to rush to the mearest telephone booth to just hear my voice, waited patiently a year before i said I lov u.

- When he had no cash - he made a card himself with I lov u written a thousand times in different ink...n it was valentines day :-)

- when he came on vacation, seeing me was d only thing on his mind....he wud reach home after a 36 hour long train journey n pull out the bike to just see me standing in the balcony....my house was 20 mins away from his, he wud (according to me ) unexpectedly bump into me after college mid way sumwher just to say hi.....but he had planned it all d while :-)

- He flew all the way especially to be on my birthday.....sacrificing his 20 days salary to pleasantly surprise me.... n i was

- He send 1000, red roses, cake n a teddy bear on my birthday from delhi to make me happy :-) i was on cloud 9, really !!


After Marriage


- If i am still sleeping n he is up early for his shift, he will pray and quickly rush to the room to give me the dhoop/agarbati ka saya. Sho shweeth :-)

- Even if he cums at 1am at nite after a long day at work n i am not well, he quickly changes to give me cold compression.

- Sumtimes he wakes early to feed me my first meal of the day

- He keeps karwachauth for me!!!! God bless him :-)

TELL ME - WHO IS BLESSED WITH THE TRUEST LOV??? I kno i win hands down!!!

That is a picture of us - Our First wedding anniversary :-) Anniversary number 2 coming sooon :-)

Dab - aaang!!

Just saw the film and have no words to describe what fans can do to make sallu miyan rise up so high!!! I felt nostalgic almost like watching a movie from the 80's when all you had to do was seek revenge and sing songs!! Now only munni could take d blame of getting badnaam...while i think the real rogue is the poor script writer!! Someone paid him enough money to glorify Salman in a slapstick masala movie such as Dabang!! Well, the cash registers are ringing and Arbaaz Khan has made some money to save face and not live on what Malaika earns for the family :-P Dats rude S.K!! True it is!!

Sonakshi Sinha does not feel like a fresh face, if there was any one younger than an ageing Salman...she fits the role of the mother ....lol.....dat brings me to another cruel comment - Can someone explain to me why does Shotgun's daughter resemble Reena Roy so much??? Hahahahaha.....trust me she does....don't believe it check it out for urself....clcik on google images for both the actresses and compare in one glance.....bingo!! I am rite!!

Some old memories

No no....i am not going to be talkin abt how i grew up n all dat!! Well, we all are born n eventually grow....only circumstances make things different...isn't it?

I have some sketchy memories of the past, when all your motive in life was to watch t.v and sleep! I recollect days when having a television at home was a sign of prosperity!! We had a t.v too and guess what i loved watching the most? The advertisements....so many on my list that still seem so impactful to me like the advt on Hum do hamare do - with a glass jar and 3 tomatoes put in side to depict that till the jar had 2 tomatoes it was alrite when u add a third one you are unable to close the lid and well, it only squeezes out!! So people have a small family...was anyone listening?? den? or even now? I doubt!!

That reminds me of a corny line too - Hum do hamare do- zyada ho toh fekh do!! lol.....hey, i can not complain neither can i comment thats because I am the 3rd sibling....hehehehe...more like a failed attempt at getting a boy in the family!!! lol.....hahahaha....i hav heard my grandma say that ample number of times....but thankfully my parents don't feel the same- instead believe that their daughters are indeed a blessing - lov u mom n dad :-)


Advertisement No 2: This I still imitate like a moron because there is a lady in our office with the same name - I am sure, u remember - Oho...Deepikaji....aaaeye aaeye...yeh lijiye aapka...saamaan.....yeh nahi woh!!! The lines seem embossed in my head.....i can rattle it off like a mimic :-P another talent that i use only when i want to see people around me laugh as well.

Power of Love!!

After millions n zillions of definitions on dat powerful feeling of love...i feel the need to add more to the dictionary....like in a previous post i said that you can fall out of love, and i got a few I stick by it!! N some more inferences in continuation....

- Love can happen twice!! Yes, y not we are blessed with a heart that has the capacity to love and hate equally. So y not use it to the optimum!!

- You will fall out of love eventually!! Because love is just so overpowering that sooner or later u r bound to get over d feeling...or me a shift in affection can result in the same.

- Boy n Gal are alwaz fatally attracted n can never remain only frnds!! Hmmm....i remember this corny dialog from maine pyar kiya that said- Ladka aur Ladki kabhi dost nahi ho sakte!! True....There is alwaz an attraction that is pulling u towards each other - it can be beauty, brains or just common interests!

- Love can be love n still not be bound in a commitment! For some reasons if you are loved or love someone but can not give it a social name- You can call it only LOVE!!! Who tells u to alwas give a name to a relationship? If u hav a frnd in the opp sex, just to avoid sarcastic comments u are willing to become siblings - I hear a lot of that these days - Woh toh mera bhai hai!! Mere behen jaisi hai!! But yyyyyyyy? You like or love someone cos your heart says so....you are not answerable to anyone else!! Well, they definitely do not know y dat 'special' frnd of ur's is on your mind all the time....n it may not be sexual....just plain liking!!!


- Loving your Friend is Normal!! Yes, you love your friend becos he or she is alwaz with you. Not because you want more s**!!! That is lame! When you get love, support n trust in the purest form you will love that person automatically.


- Liking and Love eventually lead to physical attraction!! Men/ wome can stand on roof tops n claim that their love is PURE!! But somewhere deep down there is a burning desire to touch n feel....out of sheer curiosity of getting intimate with the one you love.

More comments to follow..........

Jaane nahi denge tujhe!!

The famous 3 Idiots number never made more sense to me than it did today :-(( hmmmm...dat sad, with a heavy heart n tears welling up i play d song n expect dat miraculously life will change n be fun again :-) Silly me...i fail to understand...damage done is done for once n for all.....

For me....i like to smile away my pain (yeah...new terminology just invented....by moi) but its not happening....d perfect pair does not part into a grin to state d least.....y is my smile missing? y is my heart so heavy? I wonder how n y? The answer is simple....the loss of presence, the familiar touch, the loss of a simple smile across the room...simple joys will now me lost in the mobile bills, internet bills and sheer distance!!

Y don't things just remain d way the are wher nuthin changes at all......u wake up n go to work!!! Does dat ever change????? NEVER!!! Then y d other natural n desired things fall prey to - life has to change!!

Meeting n parting ways of life!

Hmmm....writing after a long gap...but like they say wen u have the thoughts words flow out of your mind n through ur hands.....one such day today!! A very very close frnd has left d company n moved on.....n few of my thoughts on dat are:

- I am happy for u!!

- Damn cool...all d best

- Hey keep in touch

- I will miss u :-(

- Pls don't goooooooo!!!

Mixed bag of emotions n mixed thots!! We face dis at sum point of time in life....for sum weird reason i am crooning - Milke bichadna toh dastoor ho gaya...yaadon mein teri majboor ho gaya...oh sanam unn yaadon ki kasam....A Lucky Ali famous number! But so true....human nature u feel like clinging on to every thing and every thought!! As i sit to write...i see laughter, smiles exchanged, the mean jokes, the helpful frnd and above all a great character i met in the metro city :-)

Usually i am termed 'extra pally' but with him...yes its not a girl best frnd but a guy....I was never ever conscious....sumthing abt him...things that i will never tell him ever but do know its sooo typical of him:

- He is handsome, smart n in his words DASHING!!

- A guy with a 1000 watt smile

- Very practical n down to earth

- Diplomatic wen he has to be....u can trust ur office gossip with him

- He writes mind blowing corporate content n even better...much much better poetry...dat u r bound to lov it :-)

- Laughs n chuckles like a kid....although a well built man all of 28 himself

- His credibility n responsibility makes him stand out in the crowd of 60 people in office.

- Everybody sets examples of him....his style of work, his nature and funny enough to the extent his resignation became an example too.....


:-) i don't want him to read dis....he may reach cloud 9 :-) n ritely so...nai kya!! hahaha....another silly word he has left with me....