Wednesday, April 9, 2008

Ye Pyar kya hota hai?


Hahaha...sounds funny rite? Well, a very inquisitive colleague always seems intrigued by this simple question :-) Yes, your read alrite...i said simple!! See, love has its own phases in its lifetime. Had you asked me this question 5 years back...i would have said pyar dosti hai (kuch kuch hota hai, style :-0 ) But hey i have seen and heard of turbulent love affairs...some reach their happy ends (that is being together) while others part ways. My personal opinion about love is that 'One should grow in love' i absolutely detest the phrase falling in love cos if you fall you can never get up and walk together. You grow to love one another, you like and yearn for companionship and that significant other in your life is expected to fill in the void you were carrying all along. It is beautiful when you learn to accept it as it...DO NOT CHANGE anything about yourself or your partner else the very essence of love is lost.,..Dear readers please give me your views :-)

9 comments:

Naiesha said...

I agree with you to some extent as I feel being in love involves a lot of sacrifice and is risky...But the risk is worth taking...What say?

Sim Talk said...

Oh...well...well...now u agree!! :-) dats a positive sign...but hey life is a gamble...every day n u need to take your chance to win! Be happy that you attempted and lost....instead of never playing at all. :-)

Caroline Kaunds said...

well i have never been in love..crushes n stuff...many of them..so i guess will know only when m in it..

Naiesha said...

To add more thought, loving is tooooo PAINFUL :(

Sim Talk said...

Yep...Caro u got it gal:-) Will u gals pleeseeeeeeeee stop being so cautious in life, please live it one day at a time n u'll know that everything is for a reason!! Sometimes it helps if you let ur heart rule over your mind....and rest is in the hands of the almighty!!!

Naiesha said...

Maybe that's the problem...I always let my head rule over my heart..hahahaha...silly me.....

Caroline Kaunds said...

woh toh tu hai hi..SILLY.. ha ha..agree na smita...

Sim Talk said...

:-0 aye babo caro mata...ur sister idhar aata...humko marta :-) rhyming na...lol Aree...all i am saying is dat guys losen up a little...abhi nahi enjoy karenge toh kab????

Naiesha said...

Caroji u the coming homes n I giving the mast pasting..wat say? And smiitaaji m tryin hard man.....tiring ....ooofffff!!!!